"Out-Serve" Your Wife... and Your Fellow Man | w/ Sarah Marion

Greatness in the Kingdom doesn’t look like power, platform, or control. It looks like a towel around your waist and a cross on your back.

In this episode of *Tribe Talk*, Mike and Jim relaunch the fifth archetype from *Seek Adapt Endure* with special guest **Sarah Marion**. Together, they explore what it means to live as a **servant**, modeled after the ultimate example: Jesus Christ.

Jesus told His disciples, “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant… just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Matthew 20:26–28). That wasn’t theory. It was His daily posture toward His Father, His friends, and even His enemies.

Mike, Jim, and Sarah get practical about how that plays out in real relationships, especially in marriage and community. They talk about:

- Why service is the true measure of greatness for a man of God

- What it looks like when a husband decides to “out‑serve” his wife, day in and day out

- How pride, insecurity, and score‑keeping quietly poison servant‑hearted leadership

- Real-life examples of small, consistent acts of service that build trust, intimacy, and unity

Sarah brings a needed perspective from the other side of the equation, sharing honestly about what women actually feel and notice when a man chooses to serve like Jesus instead of demanding to be served.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in selfish patterns, frustrated in your marriage, or unsure how to lead without dominating, this episode will give you a clear, biblical path forward: become a servant.

Listen in as Mike, Jim, and Sarah challenge you to “out‑serve” your wife, your brothers, and everyone God puts in your path…just like Jesus did.